How To Talk to Anyone 92 Little Tricks by Dale Leil Lowndes

This book is ideally suited for a management consultant in the 1990s.  The technology is outdated (think business cards, rolodex, etc.), and some of the advice and writing style comes across as trite and slightly elitist.  Also, the abundance of alliteration gets pretty annoying by about tip number 50.

That being said, the book is a good refresher for common sense social skills, and the author identifies some interesting lesser-known subconscious cues that could be really useful if mastered.

HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE (Part 1)/ COMMUNICATION SKILLS

• Technique no 1 : the flooding smile

Whether you are talking to someone or not, always keep a smile on your face this will increase your Attractiveness, confidence and on the other hand it will decrease your stress and blood pressure so as to improve your health. A flooding smile is not a quick smile but a slow smile which should be given after looking at a person’s face with a pause and the smile.

• Technique no 2 : the sticky eyes

A common mistake people make is look here and there while talking to people which gives a signal to others that you are not interested. Which no one likes. So while talking make eye contact to improve your bonding and relations.

• Technique no 10 : match the mood

If someone is having a bad mood then don't go and talk with high mood or full excitement instead match your mood with them and then increase your and their mood level slowly .

• Technique no 15 – 17 : never the naked job, city and introduction

Never give a one line reply to people. For the common questions like what do you do? Where do you live? Say something more than just the answer meaning try to find interesting facts and things which you can say with the name of your place which will the conversation continue. Same with profession

• Technique no 20 : parroting

Most of the time people don't require a great reply to continue the conversation any reply can just fuel them to speak. So because of parroting is a really simple way to fulfill that need and keep the conversation going.

PART 2: HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE (Hindi) 

6 tricks to become talking expert - HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE 92 LITTLE TRICKS FOR BIG SUCCESS IN RELATIONSHIP BY DALE LEIL LOWNDES BOOK SUMMARY

SOCIAL AND COMMUNICATION SKILLS

6 TRICKS TO TAKE THESE SKILLS ON THE NEXT LEVEL

1.     LIMIT THE FIDGET
2.     COME ACROSS AS A POSITIVE PERSON
3.     A MODERN DAY RENAISSANCE
4.     BE A WORD DETECTIVE
5.     IT'S comYOUnication
6.     AVOID BLOOPERS

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